Jamie Ridpath, Nora, Jane Rulon
Jane Rulon was fabulous.
Truly and genuinely fabulous.
In
the fifteen years or so that I had the honor of knowing her, my family always
referred to her as “Fabulous Jane.” She had that certain flair that is hard to
describe, but you know when someone has it. I was shocked when I found photos of her that she was not
wearing a scarf. In my mind she always had one draped around her beautiful
neck. I even imagined her at home with stylish silk scarf over her bathrobe. She
wore her gorgeous grey hair with aplomb, making me wish that I had enough nerve
to do the same. All of her accessories had a lovely story. One of my favorite
pieces was the glass ring that she purchased in France. She could make
something funky sparkle.
Jane was a familiar face at art, film, and music events. She
and I had the same habit of dropping in on multiple events in the same evening.
I was delighted when I’d see her twice in one night without making a plan. She
was a marvelous conversationalist, I loved looking over at parties and seeing
her deep in conversation with one of my siblings or neighbors.
She made
everyone feel special.
Jane made everything seem like an event, whether she was
popping in to my yard sale, celebrating a birthday, or bumping into her at the
State Fair.
She was a thoughtful gift giver and occasion-maker. When
CATH coffeehouse closed, a group of regular customers put together a lovely
celebration. Others provided the cake and food and keg. Jane arraigned with the
Mayor’s Office to decree it CATH Day and listed all of the things the coffeehouse
added to the community, which helped soften the blow of the café closing.
She
made a fabulous toast at fortieth birthday, and I was thrilled to celebrate my
fiftieth with her. One of my favorite moments of that party was running into Jane
and some other women in the washroom and having a great conversation. In case
you’ve ever wondered what the inside of the ladies room at the Jazz Kitchen
looks like, this photo was snapped there.
She once gave me a gorgeous paper crown made of sheet music
and glitter labeled Queen Bee, just because it reminded her of me. Her gift for
my fiftieth birthday was a shiny plastic Academy Award with an “envelope
please” listing why I’d won. Both the crown and the statute reside in places of
honor in my home.
Fabulous Jane died August 22, after a short illness. Her
friends and family are hosting a Celebration of Jane at the Jazz Kitchen on
Sunday, September 23. There will be music and food and everything Jane. Wear a
scarf, bring a dish (something French would be fabulous), and share your Jane
stories.
I’ll see you there.
Celebration of Jane
Sunday, September 23, 2012
The Jazz Kitchen
5377 N. College Avenue
3:00 – 7:00 pm